Is Having Rough Sex Safe?

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Fitmist We have heard this question so many times around us, in whispers, of course. Oftentimes, people want to try kinky stuff to attain pleasure and like to spice up their sex life but they are scared that it might affect their bodies….Learn more What is rough sex? A common definition of rough sex or rough play is when aggressive behaviors are included in sexual acts relationship. It is normally faster, involves factors of consensual pleasurable pain such as biting each other’s various parts, spanking, slapping, consensual choking, scratching. It is also often termed as ‘passionate’ or ‘kinky.’ Consider this before you indulge in rough sex Please note that rough sex might sound fun to you like a wild fantasy, but it might not be so fun for you in practice. That is why it is crucial to ease into rough sex gradually to test the waters of what you like and what you do not want in bed. You must also consider that things that you wish to try may be triggering for your partner…..Learn more Restrictions especially breathing restrictions can impact the scenario if your partner is not comfortable. Therefore, it is recommended to discuss mental and physical health issues or boundaries before having rough sex. This is how you can enjoy safe rough sex! It is advised to start slow and with the basics. When venturing into a new lane, you must walk patiently, and please prioritize your relationship over temporary sexual indulgence. Begin in your comfort zone. Simply ease into it and gently adjust to your boundaries as well as your partner’s become more comfortable. • Consent is everything It is better to talk to your partner about what is about your fantasies and if you are both happy with it. When we talk about something like that, it is always recommended to keep your partner’s opinion in mind….Learn more • Take care of speed and pressure If things start to get the intense meaning you and your partner are deep into intense kissing or thrusting, then only you should try going faster and harder. You can try the dirty talk to see if they are into it as much as you are, for example, “ do you like that?” or “is this better” might work. • Controlling sex positions You can try positioning your partner or yourself up against a wall, while you are in front of them, sounds like an amazing position for rough sex….Learn more Aftercare is essential Once the sex is over, do not forget to check-in with yourself and with your better-half. Ask these questions and see how they respond. 1. Did you both feel good about what just happened? 2. What could you two possibly try differently next time? Sex therapists suggest that addressing the aftercare period before rough sex will lead to a fulfilling experience…..Continue reading